Fear the unspoken words for equestrians

Remember the excitement you felt rushing to the farm to see your horse, that sweet smell of hay and horses that so many of us cherish. Bringing him in from the field, grooming him, and tacking him up made you feel alive. When you rode, it was like soaring through the sky, a pure moment of joy.  But then something changed. It’s that unspoken moment we all fear—you lost your nerve while leading him in from the paddock. You got cornered in the stall and fell off when you were just walking. That incredible feeling of joy has turned into dread and uncertainty.   I understand how frustrating it must be to hear others say, “Just get over it; that was a year ago.” It’s not that simple, is it? You're not alone in feeling this way, and it’s okay to take the time you need. Healing and regaining your confidence take time, and every step forward matters.